Ravi and Soumya were friends from their primary school, both are in high school now and in same class.
Both have mobile phones now, they exchanged number and talking alot these days.
Soumya starts thinking , 'omg this guy cares for me so much' !
Ravi too starts thinking, he is getting habituated of her.
Here starts 'siyapa' which is called mp3 mera_pahla_pahla_pyar (i dont say, in all cases but in almost cases).
They are in a age where they think everything what they are doing is true. The very sensitive , fairy tale age, the teenage. They try to feel practically and wantedly what they see (in movies, in tv programs) and feels good .
So , obviously, the shona, the babu, the bacha thing take place of the actual name for both, one becomes baby and another becomes papa/mata/dadi.
This is cute , right ?
After some days/weeks , late night talks starts becoming 18+ ๐๐๐
''Why do you boys stare that place''
''I dont stare for all, i just stare of yours, cz you are only my doll''
This is called an special sex apeal, which is done by him to her and she thinks it as a kidding in starts but slowly this kidding takes her closer to the intimacy.
Ok, til now also everything fine.
And after some days
'LET'S TRY IT OUT'
''no no..we cant have it , we are not married yet''
'' no , i am scared''
'" yeah, i will think''
'' ok we will do it, this would be exciting and interesting''
Are the common answers by the girl.
Later, if both agree and both knows the purpose
Fir fun , for entertainment , for a serious love making !!
This should be clear,
If boy names the relation as 'true love' and in this case he forces her to do it, find places like hotels, friend's room, room on rent for it then is it true love ?
The trapped girl will follow hik and reach anywhere blindly , but will boy think what image is gonna be become for that girl in the hotel staff/ friend / helpers , and is it such an important work you gonna do that people doubting on her character is ok for you ?
He and She both should think about it. Treat a girl like you want your sister to be treated by a boy !
Even if you both are clear that you both having if for fun, then also think about your age, your maturity and your society !
The trust, you love ones do for you.
If you are too unlucky to stay among careful and lovely people, you can happily have it with anyone and Share your dirty story with your friends.
We are indian, We have a pride, Our culture has a recognition, don't harm it.
Use your energy for innovation, for your family and nation. Sexism is a very dangerous harmful thing entering in our culture, stay safe and be a shield for others.
Your friends may call you เคเค्เคा if you have never done sex with someone (i dont know, why their dads did not use condoms that night) , then dont take itvas a challenge,
Answer them 'would you ask the same question to your sister's boyfriend ?'
And if possible , teach them to respect a relation, respect girls !!
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